Wednesday, August 21, 2013

quote of the day

It was Butterfly's turn to say prayers tonight.  She says the sweetest, most sincere, most grown up prayers I could imagine.  She uses phrases that often make us smile or wonder where she's heard it before.  She's thoughtful, remembering and including many things.  But what made me smile tonight: "And thank you so much for ballet.  Thank you I can take ballet, I love it so much."  

(Dance classes began today.  She couldn't be happier, taking ballet as well as her "Sparkles" team practice which will really just be a jazz classes with extra performance opportunities.)

And speaking of prayers, little Lovely makes me melt.  Each night I take her to her room, drop her onto the changing table and we talk as I ready her for bed.  She dives eagerly into the crib, snuggling down into her pillow, choosing carefully from the pile of stuffed animals in the opposite corner and smoothing the blanket across her tummy as I "flat it" for her.  Then she folds her arms and asks "Heav'ly Fah-ter?".  I love that she initiates every night.  We say prayers together, she wants me to say it but throws in her own lines as well.  She blesses every family member by name, including grandparents and usually a friend or cousin as well.  Soon she declares "Amen!", claps her hands excitedly and wiggles down further into her bed before sending me away, "ok nigh night mommy!"

bucket list

just after my husband's 30th birthday (1.5 years ago) I posted my own "30th Birthday Bucket List".  That post has been viewed 108 times.  Since my average viewing is 5, that seems like kind of a big deal.

So, wanna know how I did?

1. be debt free (minus the house...and student loans)
--almost.  We hit some very rough months.  But back on track and very close.  And if I told you how much debt we've paid off, you'd probably be appalled at how much debt we once had.  But on the other hand, I've heard worse.  And considering what we've accomplished, we're doing good.  So being debt free is granted a six month extension.

2. get down to my wedding weight and maintain
--I weigh 152 pounds (I'm 5'10").  And despite sincere efforts, I have weighed that for a year now, unable to break the plateau.  So I accept the number and move onto a better indicator: I am a size 6 (sometimes even a 4).  WOOHOO!  I haven't tried my wedding dress on recently (it's packed in storage but I have no doubt that it fits.)  But better than that, I know that I am in better shape than I have ever been in my life.  I am stronger, have better endurance and better muscle tone than I've ever had.

3. Hawaii
--tentatively scheduled for spring 2014

4. a cruise
--see #3

5. a triathlon...that's gonna take some work.  I may regret writing that.  But I hope training for a goal will help me maintain my working out motivation.
--I didn't do a triathlon.  I started training and found out that I really don't like swimming.  and I didn't really have a place to train in swimming.  However, I love going to spin classes and know I can handle the biking portion of the race.  Even better, I ran Ragnar, holding a 9 minute mile pace for 18.5 ish miles.  I had to train for it, it was a challenge and I have definitely maintained my fitness regimen. So I'm gonna consider that goal to be met.  My next race is in November.

6. get back onstage (even just once).  I haven't done anything since college, singing/ dancing/ acting/ tech.  it doesn't really matter what because it's not about the display of talent (or lack thereof) but about being part of something like that again.  I miss it.
--I haven't done any theater.  But I think I found something better.  Exactly one year ago, I became a fitness instructor.  I've trained for it, I'm developing a talent, practice regularly and I work hard at it.  It fulfills the need: I'm part of a team, I share that energy and excitement with colleagues. I'm learning a lot and find that education satisfying. Teaching classes feels like performing, complete with the same adrenaline thrill and confidence.   It's challenging and rewarding and I love it.

7. take classes.  I'd like to start a master's program but that might a little too ambitious for our current situation so I'd settle for classes about cooking and parenting.
--I loved the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace class we took and feel like we really benefited from what we learned.  I've certified in GroupKick and Zumba.  We also recently started taking classes on investing and I'm so excited about this new opportunity and can really see it building into something great.  More to come on that for sure.  Additionally, Parenting Love and Logic class scheduled for October.

8. read 6 great American novels.
--this was the hardest one.  Raising three small kids doesn't leave much time for reading.  Especially reading that takes concentration and focus.  I've read a handful of novels and a few self improvement books about leadership or finances or character building.  I'm working on reading books on parenting.  Overall, my favorite was a tie between Seven Habits (self improvement) and The Undaunted (about the Hole in the Rock Pioneers).

9. climb something big.
--I still haven't been out on the mountains again yet but I've started rock climbing on our gym's climbing wall.  Not much so it's something to look forward to still.  We had a big canyoneering trip planned that got rained out so I'll have to come back to this one.  However, see 2. Specifically, that I know I'm stronger and in the best shape of my life.  And that gives me great satisfaction as well as motivation to keep setting new challenges and plan more adventures.

10. visit at least one historical site that I've never been to before. has to be out of state and can't double with #3 or #4.
--Done: the Grand Canyon.

Yay for me!

Now accepting suggestions for my 40th birthday bucket list.

topsy turvey cake

Pinterest and I have a love-hate relationship.  as in, I love ideas I find there.  And usually love how they turn out.  Usually.  But hate the occasional stress from biting off more than I can chew. Or something not working the way it should (like a coconut oil deep conditioning mask.  great idea.  except it wouldn't wash out. ugh.)

But this one was a good find.  I fell in love with the idea of a topsy turvey cake and combed Pinterest for ideas to decorate it in a CandyLand theme.  So here's my how-to/what I learned.

Baking
I baked 9 in, 6 in and 4 in round cakes.  Each was a double layer cake (and each a different flavor). (it really does have to be double layers to create enough height for the angles.)  The chocolate and strawberry cakes (bottom and top, each with a layer of fudge filling) worked really well, behaving the way they should.  The cake made from angel food compressed for some reason so the middle section of the finished cake did not have the same height of the bottom and top layers.  It worked but didn't look as good as it should have.  But the bigger problem was that I used strawberry jam as the filling on that layer.  It tasted great but the jam caused the layers to slide and I had to use wood skewers to keep the cake layers from sliding off each other.  (no one knew and that trick may have been needed anyway.  but it sure made for lots of jokes.  "too much topsy, not enough turvey" or "topsy turvy cake is supposed to look like it's falling over...without actually falling over".  but hey, it worked and tasted great.)

Assembly
--The Bottom: I stacked a 9 inch two layer chocolate cake with fudge filling onto the platter.  I used a bread knife to cut the top layer at an angle (only the top layer so it didn't cut into the filling).  Then rotated the top (now angled section) around to increase the angle even more.
--The Middle: Stacking the next level requires cutting into the bottom section in a way that creates a level surface for the layer to sit on.  So I came in from the edge slightly and made a vertical cut into the highest sides of the circle.  Then, moving to the opposite side of the circle, I made a horizontal cut to meet it, taking out a funny triangular shape.  It creates a flat surface for the next layer, but the illusion of the angle remains, coming up just a little on the sides of the middle section.  Once the middle section is stacked, cut the top layer at an angle and rotate it.
--The Top: (rinse and repeat).  Cut into the middle section to create a flat surface for the top section to sit on.  Stack the layers on and angle them at the top as well.

Decorating
Originally I had a much more complicated design in mind.  But since the middle section was half the height of the bottom and top, it limited the amount of space I had to work with.  Plus I decided to do buttercream frosting instead of fondant.  I know fondant looks better and opens up a whole new world of decorating but it tastes bad.  I plan to try a new recipe again soon but I was looking for easy and familiar so I went with the buttercream.  I slathered frosting on, using it to create sharper, more dramatic edges to emphasize the topsy turvey layers.  (Fondant would have probably done this without so much coaxing.)  I piped in some borders on each level, decorated with some embellishments I had and topped it off with a pile of curly ribbon (which was actually made from airheads so it would have been totally edible).

Voila!  (and if I had a picture, this would all make much more sense.)

30

A few months ago, I noticed my eye sight seems to be changing, not quite as clear at night.  And then a few weeks ago, husband teased me my balance isn't as good as it used to be.  And then I admitted my knees joints were bothering me occasionally.  All just before I turned 30. *gasp!*  Coincidence?! Probably not.

I'm kidding.  Well not really.  But yeah, I'm kidding.  I'm not worried about any of it.  And turning 30 was wonderful.

My birthday was on Sunday.  Husband and I spent Friday and Saturday in a seminar on investing that has us pretty excited about new opportunities and things we've been learning.  Then on Sunday, we spent a lazy morning with our girls.  I baked cakes, we played and watched movies.  We attended church in our soon-to-be new ward, meeting more new neighbors and thoroughly enjoying the friendliness and excitement of our new neighborhood.    After church we went to a friends' house for the evening.  Our three girls ran off to play with their three boys and we had (best ever) chile rellenos for dinner and apple pie and ice cream for dessert.  It was so tasty and a wonderful evening with friends.  We came home and I finished decorating my birthday cake while Daddy put the girls to bed.  (more on that later).

On Monday evening, we had a party at our house.  My brother arrived early so the girls got to play with cousins while I put him to work helping me finish getting ready.  Then a storm suddenly blew in and put a damper on my visions of a laid-back backyard bbq.  So we moved the party indoors, setting up food and the kids happily started in a game of Candyland or making candy necklaces.  Then the storm seemed to lessen its threat so Husband set up the bounce house (while manning the grill.  he's kind of magic.)  I had rented a giant bounce house castle, complete with slide, for the occasion and the kids loved it.  The evening turned out to be exactly what I wanted: the kids ran and played, loving the bounce house and being plenty entertained while the adults got to relax, watching kids play and chatting with friends.  It was perfect and so fun.  (even me and some of my girlfriends made rounds of the bounce house, unbelievably fun.)

After the party, husband surprised me with a beautiful gift me made for me, a gorgeous set of necklace and earrings made from opal beads and an opalized ammonite pendant.  It's incredible and was such a thoughtful gift with a lot of talent and time behind it.

And then on Tuesday, we bought a house. (or more accurately, closed on the house we've been building.  It's finally ready and we will be moving Friday.  hurray!)

giving orders

Little Lovely is talking about a storm and I'm crazy about her.  I love listening to her babble.  I love how she is very clear and even wakes up giving orders.  Instead of just crying and cuddling into wakefulness, she calls (and sometimes cries) until she has my attention.  As soon as I come into the room, she makes her wishes known, "Mama! change my bum!" or "Mama! I'm hungry! Pancakes please?" or "Mama! I need a drink! Sippy please?"  or "have my shoes please? go outside?" She's not even two yet and speaks so clearly, expressing thoughts.  She's also so polite.  It amazes me (and makes me melt) how she says "yes please" and "no thank you", without prompting, every time.

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Tahiti

Once upon a time there were two sisters.  They grew up to become best friends.  They each had a daughter, born only 13 days apart, who grew up as best friends.  Thus they were dubbed by the family as the "cousintwins".  Cousintwins grew and had many wonderful adventures together, too numerous, hilarious and priceless to describe.  And then as cousintwins grew into adulthood, the shared summers ended and the adventures became fewer and further between.

Enough third person.  My cousin and I, best friends since childhood, are still very close.  We don't see each other very often and truthfully, have very little in common any more.  But still, when we are together it's always wonderful, we talk and share as only best friends can and feel as close as ever.  As kids, we spent every summer together.  She lived with me for the month of June, I lived with her for the month of July.  We spent Christmas vacations, spring breaks and family trips together and even managed a combined mother-daughter getaway every few years.  Once we graduated high school, we no longer shared our summers but still escape for the occasional adventure.

So as cousintwin and I approached a significant milestone, our 30th birthdays, we decided we must celebrate and scheduled another mother-daughter getaway adventure.  Dreams began big with thoughts of a luxurious cruise or an exotic beach somewhere.  But with limited budgets, we reigned ourselves in and continued looking.  I stumbled upon an idea and found exactly what we needed: The Tahiti Village Resort.  Soon the hotel was booked, plans were made and the countdown began.

First I must clarify, you must be thinking, "Tahiti? How is that 'reigned in'?"  The Tahiti Village Resort is in Las Vegas.  But we figured we have good imaginations and we're pretty easy to please so for us, it was close enough.

This much, much needed vacation began on Wednesday evening.  My mom came to pick me up (stopping to see our new almost ready house before we left), we handed off the girls to their Daddy and headed south.  We drove for a few hours, talking leisurely, indulging in favorite road trip snacks and stopping as needed to stretch our legs (we even joked about how normally we drive strictly to the girls' schedule, driving as much as we can if they're content, only stopping when they really need it).  After a few hours, we arrived at our "layover", which was my aunt's house to spend the night.  Cousintwin met us there and we lounged around the house, talking with her sibling and crashing for the night.  The next morning, we roused, finished packing, loaded up and went to breakfast.  With the four of us together, our vacation had official begun.  We did a little shopping, got pedicures (french tips for me, so classy and pretty!) and then headed out again, driving two more hours to our final destination of Tahiti.  (in Vegas.  but the "in Vegas" is silent.)

We arrived at our hotel, somewhat reservedly after having read very mixed reviews but immediately fell in love with the place.  The resort is about ten minutes from the strip but one would never know it.  There is no casino, none of the overbearing noise and crowds, but instead has a feeling of remoteness, relaxation and pure bliss.  With much giggling and joking, we checked in, got our parking pass and  settled into our room (a one bedroom suite), my mom and aunt taking the bedroom and cousintwin and I claiming the living room with the pull out bed.  We immediately made our way to the lazy river and was amazed and thoroughly pleased with how nice it was.  The river meandered gently, the area was lush with palm trees and other tropical plants, the cabanas invited us in and occasion tiki statues decorated the area.  It really was quite convincing to make us believe we had just entered into a tropical paradise.  After our brief visit there, we went to Tahiti Joe's, the on site restaurant.  It was still early and fairly quiet in the restaurant (despite the dj's attempts to recruit people for karoke).  We ordered virgin margaritas and one of the best burgers I've ever had before retiring to our room for chick flicks and desserts.

It probably doesn't sound very exciting.  But it's exactly what I wanted and needed.  Lazy afternoons by the river, floating, reading, sleeping and getting some sun.  Evenings spent staying up late to watch silly, feel good chick flicks (which I rarely watch anymore) with my favorite indulgent treats.  Delectable food at restaurants meant to relax and pamper it's guests.  (and a few short shopping trips for the deep discounts at outlet stores and bargain shops to help decorate my new house and spoil my cute kids.)

Some highlights:

We tried out some restaurants we found using gift cards from restaurant.com.  The first was Capo's Italian Restaurant.  Upon our arrival, the place looked like a dive.  It was dingy and run down, the paint was peeling and a simple, barely noticeable sign was all the marked the entrance.  We stepped into an alcove, dimly lit with a door and doorbell on one wall, a pay phone on another and little else to suggest this was the place so highly recommended.  I pushed the doorbell and waited expectantly.  A voice boomed from one side, deep, harsh, with a thick Italian accent, "what do you want?"  I gave our reservation information and he shot back "yeah I'll check with the boss", still with that thick accent.  Suddenly the wall to our left, with the pay phone, swung open.  I'm sure we stood gaping for a moment in surprise before we stepped inside to an honest-to-goodness speakeasy.  The dark hallway gave away to a gorgeous banquet room.  There were red leather booths, huge chandeliers dripping with crystal, black tablecloths and fine silverware set formal dining.  The Italian mafia host led us to our table and the evening continued in wonderful, luxurious bliss.  The food was amazing and the music was outstanding as a gentleman wandered around, singing to the accompaniment, songs and rhythms that fit the ambiance.  Our server was good but our busboy was thoroughly charming as we joked about earning his family name.  We finished off dinner with the best cannelloni I've ever had.

We also had breakfast at the Omelet House, a previously discovered favorite, never to be missed with it's generous portions and fantastic food.

Another restaurant.com card led us to the Crossroads House of Blues, within the Mandalay Bay.  It looks and feels like a nicer, more classy Hard Rock Cafe but with much better food.  I loved my swordfish, Aunt's ribs were melt-in-your-mouth tender and Cousintwin, despite our teasing, ordered the lobster mac and cheese which might have been the tastiest dish on the table.  Plus we sampled their key lime cheesecake (my favorite) and the bread pudding (everyone else's favorite) before we wandered over to the Bellagio to admire their gardens and watch the fountains (always my favorite feature of the strip).

My mom and I attended an early morning temple session.  It was a wonderful experience and breath-takingly beautiful.

We spent every afternoon at the pool.  Without kids to chase, we alternated lounging poolside and drifting lazily down the river on the hotel provided tubes, narrowly avoiding the frequent waterfalls and thoroughly enjoying the ambiance.  I took a book with me everyday and finished three novels before the weekend was over.

We made friends with a neighboring family.  I brought cookie dough, mixed, balled and ready to bake but much to my dismay, our suite didn't have an oven.  Our next door neighbors let us borrow their and we shared generously (much to their children's delight) and then enjoyed their waves and adoring "hellos" throughout the weekend.

I got to make a short visit to a long time friend from college and spent a few minutes touring his new business (a 3D family fun center, can't wait to take my kids) and catching up.

And on our last night, we attended the resort's Tahitian Luau.  We went in hoping for decent food and a good show (having been spoiled with many, many Tongan luaus in my childhood) but the evening was more amazing that we expected.  The food was great and plentiful and the dancers were genuinely impressive.

Monday morning came too soon, we grudgingly packed and loaded and bid farewell to my new favorite Vegas getaway.  We made our way home, dropping off my aunt and cousintwin, and finally arriving home to a quiet house, eager to see my family and hear about their own weekend adventure to visit cousins.

Thursday, August 8, 2013

dino playdate

We met my sister in law and her adorable kiddos for a playdate at the dino park.  I had never been there and found it to be such a great place.  First we wandered the small museum.  Upstairs, we first found the hall of animontronics.  Butterfly loved the huge dinos that slowly moved and growled among the foliage covered set.  Ladybug immediately panicked and cringed away from it and Lovely clung to be, watching nervously.  So we continued onto the fossils, mostly gemstones and beautiful precious stones.  Butterfly raced around exclaiming and picking out favorites for Grandpa (an avid fossil/rock collector).  We headed downstairs and Ladybug recovered from her previous panic and crankiness to excitedly explore with her sisters, finding the giant skeletons and naming each one "Rexy".  The loved the small kids center at the end and colored for a few minutes before we continued outside.  The "backyard" of the museum was huge, with pathways that wandered around sculptures that depicted all kinds of dinosaurs.  We found a few of them before settling in to play at the playground for awhile.  The sand was too hot to wander very far so the girls stayed together in the shade, playing among the toys and making piles of sand.  Soon we were joined by cousins and the girls were thrilled to play together.  My sister and I sat on the benches with her baby, talking, lounging and watching the children run around.  Eventually we meandered the paths again, finding more dinos, reading the placards and letting the kids play and explore.

Soon the kids had their fill and were getting tired so we continued onto Chili's for dinner.  The two older girls from both families played so well together, using little princess figurines from my bag to entertain themselves.  The two younger kids (my Lovely and her cousin) stayed with their moms and we tried to keep them entertained until the food came (the baby slept through the whole meal, what a great baby).  Our meal got cut short by Lovely's upset tummy but all in all, a great playdate.  In fact, it's hard to tell who enjoyed it more, the girls playing with cousins, or my sister and me getting to hang out too!

family date night

Monday night, after dinner we piled the kids into the car for a family date night.  First we ordered sno-cones, much to the delight of our little girls.  They both wanted purple, argues about who should the get the purple, and finally agreed to get one purple and one pink and share.  I ordered raspberry for Lovely, which she proceeded to dribbled down her shirt and deeply stained her lips until they were dark blue.  We took our sno-cones to the park for the girls to run and play tag and burn off some energy.  My favorite part was watching Lovely share with Daddy to a chorus of "bite-a bite-a bite-a?!" Each time she wanted a spoonful.  And then as an unexpected end to the evening, we stopped at a friend's house to help celebrate the birthday of Ladybug's best friend.  It was just us and them, we made a little cake, played with toys and opened presents.

On an unrelated note, this followed a fun weekend.  On Saturday we did some early morning yard sale shopping, finding some great new toys for the kids and princesses costumes to play dress up.  We spent that evening with friends on the lake.  It was the girls' first time on a speed boat!  We drove the boat out into the lake and then stopped for the girls to play.  Needing no encouragement, (and almost without warning), Butterfly jumped in the water.  Daddy followed so she wasn't alone and had little Ladybug jump to him.  Lovely plunged right in as well and all the kids splashed and played close to the boat for awhile.  Soon the girls were taking turns on gentle tubing rides and giggling while screaming their heads off.

On Sunday, we had a long lazy morning and then attended church in our soon-to-be new ward.  We met so many great people and the girls had a great time.  So looking forward to our new home!

quote of the day

Butterfly: "Mom?! Can you get the baby out of the tree?"
So I went outside, expecting that the girls had climbed the tree, the baby was standing in their way of getting down.  But no.  I went outside and the baby was nearly six feet in the air.  In the tree.

Saturday, August 3, 2013

fair days and stuff

Last weekend was spent at my parents' house.  So fun, as usual.  But we actually worked hard, not the usual.  :)  We joined the party Saturday afternoon and set to work helping clear furniture and storage from my parents' basement so that the rooms can be finished.  It took a couple truck loads as we waited for breaks in the rain and eventually we filled their new storage unit with our adult-sized Tetris-master magic.  Spent from our effort (mostly Husband's, Dad's and Brother's effort), we settled down for a pizza picnic on the living room floor with the kids.  Sunday was spent at church, playing at Grammy's and heading home for another busy week.

On Wednesday, Husband and I went on a date (mostly running errands with a quick dinner), while Grandma played with the girls.  The girls had SO much fun, shouting at me if I tried to peek at their project. They baked and decorated cupcakes to enter into the fair.  They also picked vegetables from the garden that they helped plant and tend this summer.

So on Thursday, we picked up Daddy after work and went to the fair to see the displays.  The girls loved the wedding displays and then made a beeline to the baked goods to find their cupcakes.  Much to our surprise and delight, they won!  (they were really cute! decorated like giant round suckers, complete with sticks and ribbons)  Their veggies also earned ribbons that we admired before wandering the quilts and other projects.  We ventured over to see the pigs which were noisily being paraded and judged next door.  The girls were excited and begged to go see them.  But as we go close, Ladybug freaked out, climbing up me and clinging to me in a panic.  I suspect she thought they would be little and cute like at the Baby Animal Days.  But these pigs were enormous.  Butterfly scampered around though, finding a friend who proudly introduced us to her pigs and let her pet them.

Then, at the pleaded of our adorable children, we headed for the carnival.  We bought a handful of tickets and let them take turns picking the rides.  They dashed first to the giant slide, bravely climbed the stairs and rode down squealing and giggling.  Next was the carousel, now joined by a very happy Lovely.  The girls rode the giant bees and lastly, the boats.  It took some convincing but soon we left for a quick dinner and eventually, bedtime.

Last night, we could hear the rodeo but we skipped it in favor of playing at a friend's house.  We grilled sausages and hotdogs, the kids jumped on the trampoline, we toured their new beautiful home, built a campfire for s'mores and generally had a wonderful evening, letting our kids run and play in the warm evening, watching the breath taking sunset colors dance across the mountains.  The only mishap was when Lovely tumbled off the trampoline, down the pile of bricks and onto the ground.  She cried and clung to me for a few minutes and eventually recovered enough to run off again, heedless of the fresh road rash on her face and legs.  And then as we said goodbye, my Ladybug grabbed their youngest son, nearly dipping him backwards and she planted a long kiss on his mouth, released him abruptly and ran for the car.  Like the other adults, I blinked, stood speechless and eventually shrugged and laughed.  (and secretly fear her teenage years).

Today was a honey-do, run errands kind of Saturday.  Husband and I took turns at the gym, we visited our nearly ready house, pointing out the few lasts tasks to finish, went bargain hunting at yard sales and played with our girls.  (we did great at the sales! a fisher price carnival set, dressup princess dresses, a toy train, kid ski pants)  A quiet (but short) afternoon and plans to go boating with friends tonight and attend our new ward tomorrow!