Wednesday, October 24, 2018

milestones 10.5, 9, 7 & 2.5


L, 10.5 years old
Favorite color: royal purple, black
Favorite food: fish and chips, enchiladas, sushi
Favorite treats: frozen yogurt, cheesecake, runts
Favorite movie/show: Alexa and Katie, chick flicks with mom
Favorite music: demi lovato, chainsmokers, divide
Favorite book: Geronimo stilton
Favorite activities: crafts, reading, dancing, playing with sisters
Favorite toys: tablet, hatchimals with sisters
Favorite animal: unicorn, butterfly, sea turtles, big cats
Favorite restaurant: ichiban, chic fila
Favorite place to go: eva’s house, theatre
Favorite game: best fiends and dancing line (tablet)
Favorite holiday: Halloween and thanksgiving
Favorite vacation: dancing at Disney, Caribbean cruise
Dream vacation: Europe
What I want to be when I grow up: chemist
I dream about: déjà vu
I worry about: nothing
I’m good at: dance, piano
I want to be better at: aerials
If I could have a superpower: time travel
Someday I want to: have my own family
I’m thankful for: family, my best friend
I like it best when I am: dancing, hanging with mom


A, 9 years old
Favorite color: blue
Favorite food: pasta, sushi, shrimp, enchiladas
Favorite treats: twix, Neapolitan ice cream
Favorite movie/show: Phantom of the Opera, Greatest Showman, Avengers
Favorite music: imagine dragons, Lindsay sterling
Favorite book: dork diaries
Favorite activities: art, playing with friends
Favorite toys: hatchimals, barbies, legos
Favorite animal: cat
Favorite restaurant: ichiban, Burger King
Favorite place to go: swimming pool
Favorite game: Mario monopoly, Long Cow
Favorite holiday: Christmas
Favorite vacation: Caribbean cruise
Dream vacation: New York
What I want to be when I grow up: veterinarian  
I dream about: pizza. Jk. Weird stuff. Like pizza.
I worry about: my teeth
I’m good at: art, shopping, piano
I want to be better at: Spanish
If I could have a superpower: teleportation
Someday I want to: go to New York
I’m thankful for: family
I like it best when I am: doing art


E, 7 years old
Favorite color: pink!. Blue, purple
Favorite food: ramen, spaghetti noodles, enchiladas
Favorite treats: Hershey bar, kit kat, ice cream sundae
Favorite movie/show: Phantom of the Opera, Cinderella, Mickey and Roadster Racers
Favorite music: Phantom of the Opera and The Greatest Showman soundtracks
Favorite book: Please Mr. Panda
Favorite activities: playing with sisters, bowling, popcorn movie night
Favorite toys: Hatchimals, Barbies
Favorite animal: panda and butterfly
Favorite restaurant: Panda Express, Ichiban
Favorite place to go: movie theatre
Favorite game: Long Cow
Favorite holiday: Christmas, Halloween, Valentines
Favorite vacation: Hawaii
Dream vacation: another cruise
What I want to be when I grow up: panda trainer
I dream about: catching butterflies
I worry about: monsters under my bed
I’m good at: dance, gymnastics, cartwheels
I want to be better at: double pirouette
If I could have a superpower: shape shifting
Someday I want to: hug a panda
I’m thankful for: my family and my loved ones
I like it best when I am: playing with my family


Z, 2.5 years old
Favorite color: blue, red
Favorite food: yogurt, pancakes, salad, tacos, tortellini, string cheese
Favorite treats: candy, popsicles, popcorn, cake batter I stole from mom
Favorite movie/show: Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Curious George (“monkey George”)
Favorite music: you are my sunshine, twinkle twinkle, do as I’m doing
Favorite book: Panda Bear, Panda Bear, What do you see?
Favorite activities: jumping on the trampoline, going to the park, anything with Dad
Favorite toys: duplos, tools, cars
Favorite animal: elk, moose
Favorite restaurant: café rio
Favorite place to go: Sportsmans Warehouse and see the animal mounts, preschool
Favorite game: Little Piggies, hide!
Favorite holiday: anytime dad is home
Favorite vacation: anything with daddy and papa
Dream vacation: hunting, the beach, outerspace
What I want to be when I grow up: Daddy’s shadow
I dream about: going in daddy’s truck (he talks in his sleep)
I worry about: not getting to go in dad’s truck, not getting to pour my own drinks
I’m good at: charming anyone and everyone, jumping, riding a scooter, flexing muscles
I want to be better at: bedtime routine (mom wants that anyway)
If I could have a superpower: see and do everything
Someday I want to: be pottytrained (again, according to mom. Z has no interest.)
I’m thankful for: my family
I like it best when I am: with dad, especially when working in the garden or using tools

May to October 2018


Noooooo….. did I really go all summer without updating?! Ugh. Alright, diving in.

Starting way back in MAY, fantastic things like
husband’s birthday (spent at a scout camp so we snuck in birthday breakfast and date night as we could)
Mother’s Day (lots of cuddles and chocolate).
Spring Dance recitals were fantastic. The afternoon show, Peter Pan, included Evie as a pirate and Abi as a water fairy. And then the evening show included all of the team’s competition routine plus we got to see Libby’s jazz and ballet routines. We had a mini meltdown over a costume malfunction so she simply wasn’t herself for the jazz number but shone brilliantly in the ballet.
Girls’ night out with Sommer for her birthday. We went to a Greek restaurant and tried random things off the menu that we couldn’t pronounce, saw Mama Mia! onstage and went out for frozen yogurt.
WDC jumped right into team and company auditions for the next year. Evie decided not to audition, wanting more free time (and by the end of the summer, we called the director and begged for a fall audition, having changed her mind and desperately wanting to be on the team again.) Libby worked hard in auditions, really pushing herself and practicing at night. And then her teachers invited me in for discussion. She’s very talented and her technique is progressing well. Enough in fact, that her skill put her far above the next level up. But to jump two levels caused some concern about emotional readiness, time commitment and taking corrections. After a great deal of consideration and debate, she opted for an alternate route that allows her to customize her schedule a bit. She will be dancing with Level 4 for her ballet and jazz classes, which will help her to continue in her progression. But she will compete with Club, instead of Company, next year which is a little more flexible and not quite so many hours. And then she fell in love with tap at a summer intensive and added that to her schedule as well. I second guessed our choice many times but she made the decision confidently and (now jumping to fall) has had a fantastic start so far this year, loving her classes, her teammates and her extra freetime. I ran into one of the club coaches last week who told me Libby is one of the most advanced dancers in her group and doing so well and the team has really clicked and seems to have a really good camaraderie and energy. I'm so thrilled its worked out so well. She loves dance and has begged for a ballet barre in her room. I love seeing her confidence grow and love watching her dance.
And we had an amazing Memorial Day Weekend Family Campout in Bryce Canyon! We arrived super late on Friday and a few hours later, sent husband off with my brother and nephew to go meet some friends and go canyoneering, while the kids and I swam and played with cousins. We had a blast at the rodeo that night, all the kids under age 10 participated in the mutton bustin and calf riding. We went hiking and saw beautiful scenery, ate fantastic food, chased Zach around and had a blast. It was easy and relaxed, lots of time for cousins to be together and so fun.
And then ended with our annual trip to the cemeteries and BBQing with the aunties, getting to enjoy more good food and wonderful family.

JUNE
              And then the school year ended! Field trips, testing, final projects and field day. Libby’s last few months of school were a little rough with some obnoxious boys in the class, to the point of getting teachers involved. So she was eager for summer and a change of pace. All the kids were really. We spent the first few days doing NOTHING! And then pretty quickly dove into fun projects like drama boot camp, dance intensives and tumbling classes.
              Libby participated in the Senior drama bootcamp, School House Rock Jr. She loved getting to sing and be part of the ensemble.
              Abi and Evie, with the Junior bootcamp program, did Cinderella! Abi was cast as the Grand Queen of the ball (the Prince’s mother) and Evie played a bird! They both did wonderfully and Abi played her role very well, being so regal and looked so beautiful. Evie was sweet and charming and they both had so much fun. I ran the concessions booth for both shows to help ear their tuition and they really liked having me involved.
              Libby did three summer dance intensives, getting to take a variety of classes from different teachers. She especially loved the tap classes.
              All three girls got to take a tumbling class this summer. They had a lot of fun with it and I think I saw the most progression with Evie, who was taking it for the first time. Libby is inching closer to the highly coveted aerial trick, and both Abi and Libby are almost their on their walkovers.
              While Libby was at dance camp, Abi and Evie went to swimming lessons. Truthfully not because they need it but because they love it. The refresher is great but truly, they’re both fish and love an excuse to go swimming.
              But more specific to June again, husband and I snuck away for a weekend adventure to go canyoneering! On Friday we conquered Birch and Orderville. I really liked it, we did lots of great rappels one right after another in the beginning, then hustled through a rather boring hike, and then enjoyed a ton of fun obstacles and water features one right after another again. The canyon was great, but definitely made for a long day. And I would come to find out I had a nasty ear infection. So I kept it at bay with medicine for awhile but as it really settled in on Friday I could feel it affect my energy and balance. So on Saturday, two of our group members had gone home already, leaving 5 of us left. But I decided I just wasn’t feeling up to another canyon (especially the cold water part), and my best friend’s daughter/my friend/my part time teenager Leila opted out as well. So Husband and then other two men raced through Pinecreek in just under 3 hours, moving fast as a small and well experienced team. Awesome weekend.
              The girls did Ninja Camp! It actually was a kids’ day camp run by the gym with everything from yoga to hiking to obstacle course training. They offered it free to employees the first week as they ironed out the details and the girls loved it! We will definitely do it again.
              We celebrated Father’s Day and Grammy’s birthday together with a day of playing a delicious food.
              Husband’s June was also sprinkled with commitments to the Young Men’s with Trek and Timberline on top of his always heavy work schedule. Seriously, I married Superman.
              And cousin camp! So much fun! Always a ton of prep and planning and excitement and always a huge hit. It was held in Heber this year and the theme was a carnival! I love getting to do this every year with my siblings and the J cousins and with all of our quickly growing families, we make a huge group! And everyone made participating so much fun. Everyone brought a food booth and a game booth. Food included everything from fresh corndogs, pop corn, water melon, shave ice, Italian sodas and cotton candy. And I lost count of the game booths: wack a mole, milk bottles, shooting gallery, fortune telling, bounce house, tattoos, face painting, turtle races, photo booth, plinko and more. And then to top it all off, a prize booth with amazing choices. And while lots of people helped out, credit definitely goes to my mom as the visionary and planner extraordinaire. She pulls of the most incredible and elaborate parties that are so fun on every level.

MORE MISCELLANEOUS
              We met with several orthodontists over the summer, getting evaluations and estimates for both Libby and Abi. It’s been a long process. And in the end, found one that we really liked, very straightforward, very easy to talk to, and considerably cheaper than the rest. Since then, Libby got her top braces just before school started and her bottom braces yesterday. Abi got fitted for her retainer but after two that didn’t fit, we had to go with a different route and she was fitted with a permanent retainer yesterday. She doesn’t have all her adult teeth yet but the doc wants to capitalize on an upcoming growth spurt and widen her top jaw to create much needed space, and then do full braces in a few years.
              I continued doing cakes through the summer. I don’t do near as many any more because of my wrist but I’ve gotten to do some really fun designs and build up our travel fund a little. The silver lining in the whole fiasco with my wrist is that my cake business had grown so much bigger and faster than I dreamed! Which is fantastic but I ended up working much more than I had planned. Taking time off allowed me to revaluate my pricing as well as how much I wanted to work. I work a lot less now and it’s a better fit. Summer was also particularly rough because of the crazy heat! I also found a new opportunity just recently and have started working at Madyson’s Marshmallows. Not much, but doing some decorating there. Piping melted chocolate instead of frosting was a bit of a change but because it’s all piping I can do it all one handed and my weak wrist isn’t a problem. Plus it’s a nice variety from cakes.
My wrist and hand still get sore really easily. Typing this much is killer! But I did as much physical therapy as insurance will allow, and truthfully, probably as much as I’m going to benefit from anyway. My recovery was slower than the doc predicted and while I don’t have full range, it’s okay. Not as good as new, but good again. It’s my new normal. I even started lifting at the gym again. I can’t go as heavy in my weights and I’m out of shape (because instead of continuing to run or bike or something to keep up my endurance, I chose to stay home and wallow in self pity and chocolate) but getting there. I even started teaching GroupPower again two weeks ago. My boss had me team teach the first week and then expressed she was pleased with how quickly I was getting back into it and gave me the go ahead to be on the regular schedule again. I've missed it and am thrilled to be back.

JULY
              Was crazy busy. It wasn’t supposed to be. Most of our lessons and camps were scheduled in June. But July filled in and was such a blast.
              On the 4th of July we went to a friend’s house. We spent the day playing in the water, jumping on the trampoline, and hanging with friends. We made our flag treat, an annual tradition, bbqed for dinner and had a perfect view of the Memorial Hill fireworks.
              We spent a weekend at Cherry Hill with my brother, his family and my parents. Camping there is fantastic because the kids love to play with cousins and I love just getting to hang out and relax. We ate at Gnarly’s, a local favorite featuring Hawaiian food, and the Pie Place getting lots of frozen yogurt. We spent all of Saturday in the water park and wore everyone out. The cousins spent the whole day racing around to every feature. I spent most the day in the lazy river with Zach and Grammy. Husband and I participated in a couples content, a race around the lazy river. We made it to the finals and took second! Zach managed to get ahold of a tub of red vines, proudly distributing and revoking them all weekend.
              We spent a day at the zoo with cousins. Zach is the perfect age, squealing with every discovery and so excited to see the animals. Libby loved hanging with Mimi, Abi loved the big cats and Evie carried the map and played tour guide. One favorite highlight was getting to feed the giraffes with their crazy long tongues. Kylie helped Zach on their turn and then he clung to her the rest of the day, clearly one of his new favorite people. Followed by slurpees and swimming, it was probably one of the best days of the whole summer.
              Abi and Husband attended the karate retreat, spending the night at sensei’s cabin for training in the outdoors, doing service and teambuilding. She talks about it nonstop, eagerly anticipating it for weeks. And then reported her favorite part was doing katas outdoors. And the flour fight. Which I still don’t understand what it was and why it happened but spent a lot of time scrubbing out of her hair.
              We attended a family reunion in Kanab, with my extended family including my grandma’s siblings. It’s a huge crowd and was a great success. We rented a house to share with my parents and brother so as always, the kids are happy just to be with cousins. My parents put in a ton of work preparing for the reunion. My favorite was the giant tree, 10 feet tall, 8 feet wide, with my great grandparents in the center. And then the four siblings extended out on four branches, each branch then splitting into branches for their kids, and those branches splitting again for the next generation. It was full of pictures and names as a brilliant and beautiful display of our family history. So unique and incredible. Another hit of the reunion was the auction. Donations were encouraged so we can perpetuate a fund to host the reunion. Husband ended up as the auctioneer and was fantastic! He was a huge hit. He’s so charmingly witty and irresistible that no doubt we raised much more than anticipated.
              On Pioneer Day, July 24th, Libby was invited to sing at the Charleston Day Celebration! Her piano class was working on our state song as one of their free choice songs for the summer. So Libby and Reese sang it as a duet with Bryan accompanying them on piano. Reese’s voice teacher helped them prepare and they did beautifully! Libby sang with a confident, rich sound that really carried them and I was so impressed! After her performance we wandered the booths and then spent the day swimming before a BBQ and fireworks at home.
              We spent a day at the lake with friends. We took a picnic and played in the water at Jordanelle. It was a very relaxed and simply day out and so fun. The water was freezing but the kids had a great time. Evie and her friend made a secret hideout (in plain view of everyone) and conducted top secret meeting. Abi swam nonstop while Libby and her friend shrieked at the cold water, bouncing in and out of the water and playing with the babies.

AUGUST
              We had to miss Fair Days this year. The girls were a little bummed, they love being in the parade. But this year we spent that day with family. It started with Rebekah’s birthday party at a karate dojo. I was proud of Abi for not showing off and bragging about how she is already a blue belt. She simply went along with the demo lesson and was often pointed to as an example of control and focus. Then we went to Rebekah’s baptism. Grammy was going to give a talk so Libby read it for her and it really meant a lot to her that she got to participate that way. And then we ended the day with swimming with cousins.
              The Bringhurst family came to visti! We were racing to get the basement done before they arrived. We didn’t quite make it but close enough they helped us set up beds and make good use of the new guest rooms.  The best part of the weekend was our family adventure on Saturday night (in part to celebrate my birthday!) We took all the kids to see Newsies! at Hale Theatre and went to Chili’s for dinner. And then spent Sunday relaxing and having a bbq with friends. I love, love, love Jo and am so grateful anytime we get to see each other.
              There was a flurry of moving furniture as we hurried to get the girls settled into their new rooms before school started (which of course actually took til several days after. All three girls are on the same school schedule this year and are off to a great start. Libby announced she loved her new teachers, Abi said the whole day was amazing and it will be the best year ever, and Evelyn came home bitterly crying that it was so boring and they didn’t even do any math the whole day. Fortunately, the next day went much better.
              Even Zach is attending school this year, at a twice a week, 2 year old preschool program. He adores his teacher and she has reported he is the best dancer and singer. She loves his energy and sweet manners.
Libby immediately joined the chess club (who knew?) this year at school and has been loving that. Abi joined book club. Both girls were pretty disappointed they are not doing GATE this year so we’re trying hard to find extra challenges for them.
Nutcracker auditions were held the first week of school, Evelyn will be an angel and Libby was cast as a dragon dancer as well as a party guest for the overture. Abigail decided not to audition this year. We went back and forth many times, she loves the Nutcracker but really doesn’t want to take ballet (as is required by the studio to be eligible). So in the end, I enrolled her for a drama program instead and she’s loving that. One day a week she takes both an acting and a voice class. One day a week she has her ensemble class that will eventually cast and prepare Beauty and the Beast.
Libby and Evelyn both attended Epic, a two day dance convention. We arrived late because of a major accident on the freeway and hurried them to their classes. We shared a hotel room with Eva and her room so while the girls were dancing, Elise and I checked us into the hotel and went to dinner and did a little shopping. After dance we stayed up late to go swimming and play games. On Saturday, the girls went back to dance classes and I spent the morning shopping with Grammy and getting to watch the showcase.

SEPTEMBER
Nate spent the first week in Alaska and brought us lots of tasty fish again. This year’s group included both his sister and one of his best friends so they had a blast. He and his friend were assumed to be guides more than once because they were so successful and so good at helping others.
Since Nate was gone I took the kids to my parents for a few days over Labor Day weekend and mostly have just been trying to keep up with these busy kids.
And then fabulous birthday weekend came! The morning was busy with Nutcracker costume fittings, dance team pictures and readying for the party. Abi and Evie requested a Barbie Luau this year so we got luau themed invitations, borrow tons of decorations from Grammy’s stash and the party was a huge hit. I did a doll cake as a hula girl with beach cupcakes and then we served pizza with fruit and veggies. I made a giant Barbie box that we used as a photo booth, providing lots of props like grass skirts, leis, sunglasses and accessories.  And we rented a bounce house water slide with a 5 foot tall shark slide. Seeing our preparations, our new neighbors offered their bounce house water slide to use as well, but this was an epic adult sized water slide, easily twice as tall and the kids LOVED it. So the afternoon was filled with tons of giggling, food, splashing, gifts and general happy chaos.
On their actual birthdays both Abigail and Evenly got a special breakfast of their choice (Abi was ham and egg sandwiches, Evie was Belgian waffles with fruit) and got to take rainbow colored donuts to school. We did a special family dinner at Ichiban and did our best to cuddle and spoil our quickly growing girls.
A few days later we celebrated my best friend Amy’s birthday with a double date and while we were gone, the girls set up the surprise party! We had lots of friends and cupcakes and the girls loved getting to be in on it. Z loved eating as many cupcakes as he could sneak away.
And then, BOSTON! Husband and I took the opportunity to sneak away for a few days and go sight seeing. We left the kids with Amy and took a late Saturday night flight to Boston, getting fancy popcorn in the Chicago airport and passing the time watching movies that did not feature animated princess or talking animals. Very unusual for me.
On Sunday morning, we picked up my parents from the cruise ship terminal as they were just finishing a week long fall foliage cruise (yes, I’m jealous. Yes, they did invite us but we couldn’t go. Yes, it’s still on my bucket list.) We rather spontaneously decided to spend our first day at Sturbridge Village (which turned out to be a brilliant plan since it would be closed the next two days. I fell absolutely in love with it and the whole day was amazing. We started with watching a demo in the carpenter’s shop and then visited displays about everything from schooling, to lighting, to weapons. We watched the demo at the mill (where of course Nate and my dad even went underneath to analyze the engineering) and my mom told me stories of watching her grandpa do the same work when she delivered his lunch. We saw the flour mill, granary, blacksmith shop, a demo on dovetailing, candlemaking and shoe making. We visited the old schoolhouse and the general good store where mom and I listened to presentation of fashions and got to take our time wandering through this beautiful haven frozen in time. We took the carriage ride around the town, realizing we would be unable to see everything we wanted to at leisure but would get a little bit of it all this way. We wandered through antique clocks and quilts and finished at the print shop demo where that part of me, just such a sucker for the stories and nostalgia gave in and something in that room full of ancient type, now so quiet and still, just swallows me up. It made me miss teaching more than I have since I quit. I miss studying and reading and sharing these stories and getting so caught up and passionate in a lecture. I can’t wait to go back and take the kids.
We were some of the very last people to leave, but having skipped lunch, we quickly found the Sturbridge Café and it was amazing! We made our way back to Boston and found our hotel.
On Monday, we toured historic Boston. After a bit of confusion figuring out parking and trolley tickets and sites, we spent most of the day touring with a hop on-hop off trolley. I’ve walked the freedom trail before, devouring every detail I could. So this was a different way to see it, listening to the drivers’ stories and anecdotes in the warmth of the trolley instead of slugging through the rain. We admired the monuments and my dad and I traded stories we’ve read, happily nerding away while Nate and my mom humored us. We did stop to walk through the old state house and had lunch at Quincy market. In a perfect world, I wish we could have gone to see Hamilton that night, but I forgot that outside of Utah, shows don’t run on Monday nights. We drove through the Sleepy Hollow cemetery on the way home, just as it was getting dark, paying homage to the famous authors there. It was too late to visit another historical site so we watched a movie and turned in early.
On Tuesday we went to Lexington and Concord. We decided to take a trolley tour again and it was amazing! Instead of a hop on and off, we stayed with the same guide the whole time, spellbound by her narration. She was a gifted storyteller, fascinating to listen to and despite how much I have studied, I heard so many little pieces I’ve never heard before, that made the story more rich and complete. Once we finished our tour we went back to Minuteman Park to visit the museum there and much too soon, had to hurry off to the airport.
Back home to finish off the beautiful and busy month of September, we had one more fabulous weekend. Husband and Grandpa took Abigial and Evelyn fossil hunting again. Libby was schedule for another weekend at Epic, this one with Club. So she rode down with friends on Friday while Z and I stayed home working on cakes and finishing projects. Then on Saturday, Zach and I drove the girls down. They attended their glasses while Zach and I did some shopping and discovered the best pizza ever at a little café around the corner from the conference center. We got to watch the showcase again and celebrate with frozen yogurt. I love watching my girls dance! And then spent the evening having a fantastic girls night with Libby.

And OCTOBER!
              I love general conference weekend! My mom plus Sommer and her girls came to visit. So the kids played every minute they could while I juggled a few cakes and activities. Then we watched conference with coloring pages and conference cupcakes and finally landing on our new favorite, conference bingo. The girls wrote their own bingo cards, placed one treat per square as they heard the keyword and then devoured the row when they got a bingo. Abi insisted on writing some words we’ve never used for conference cups before, things like shepherds and grace. I thought they were too specific and she might get discouraged if they didn’t ever come up. So perhaps that made us particularly attentive to how often we heard them! It created a really meaningful experience and opportunity to discuss the themes. On Saturday, Nate took the kids to help in Grandpa’s garden and play with the horses while Mom, Sommer, Libby and I got to have a girls night and experience the women’s session.
              I took the kids to Logan for last minute activity with cousins. We went to the American Heritage Farm in Logan where the kids got to see some animals, ride the little train and ride the ponies. And then we reached the Corn maze! They spent some time on the activities outside of the maze, playing games, going down the barrel slides and digging in the dirt. And then had a blast wandered the corn maze. It started to rain so I took over the map and got us out quickly. Nevertheless, the kids loved the usual and festive challenge. Then we went to Grammy’s house to build gingerbread Halloween houses, have dinner and play with cousins. It was a short trip, just the afternoon but we were back soon for…
              UEA! The kids didn’t have school Thursday so I hurried to finish cakes while they slept in and played with friends. Well, really just Libby. Her best friend Eva came over and they played all morning. Abi’s playdate got cancelled with the recent discovery of a tear in the couch. I love this crazy girl. Who is so thoroughly good and sweet and fun and incredibly tender. She’s has the most amazing and vivid imagination, creativity and energy that makes life with her so fun…and sometimes burst out in every direction with a bit of collateral damage. This time it was the couch who was the innocent victim of her recklessly showing off. And then hiding it. So damage discovered, conversations had, punishments assigned and moving on. By late afternoon we were off! We met Grammy in Ogden for shopping a dinner. Zach has had a crazy growth spurt this summer and needed more clothes. He happily picked out anything to do with dinosaurs (an apparent new fascination) and the girls were happy to help. Especially when they got bribed with looking at toys at the end. We made it to Tremonton to have dinner with papa and played cards until bedtime.
              On Friday we spent the morning lounging and playing. Then we headed to Logan for a few errands, have lunch with cousins and to attend the pumpkin walk! It was so great! The pathway is lined with pumpkins carved in every design and skill level. And behind those, local groups created scenes using pumpkins to tell stories like the very hungry catapillar, or Nemo, or even the hospital. So creative! As a bonus challenge, there was a tiny pumpkin painted like a globe in every scene and the kids raced to be the first to spot it. The kids were pretty worn out so we headed back to Tremonton to see Papa again. We built a fire in the backyard and roasted hot dogs and s’mores and dive into the Jacuzzi (one of the girls’ favorite activities! And Zach’s first time “goin simming in da big baftub!”.


Hey I think I’m caught up! Woohoo!

Wednesday, May 2, 2018

milestone 10, 8.5, 6.5, 2


L, 10 years old
Favorite color: teal, peach
Favorite food: sushi, cheesy potato casserole, stuffed mushrooms
Favorite treats: royal chocolate cake, cheesecake, dark chocolate covered mango
Favorite movie/show: The Greatest Showman, Annie, Newsies
Favorite music: Taylor Swift, Greatest Showman soundtrack, musicals soundtracks
Favorite book: Wonder
Favorite activities: dance, singing, reading, watching chick flicks, sleeping in, competing
Favorite toys: tablet
Favorite animal: lion, tiger, sea turtle, dolphin
Favorite restaurant: Ichiban, Zupas, café rio
Favorite place to go: movie theatre, shopping, planetarium
Favorite game: wii, Mario monopoly
Favorite holiday: Christmas, New Years
Favorite vacation: Hawaii, Caribbean cruise
Dream vacation: Italy
What I want to be when I grow up: schoolteacher
I dream about: winning lots of money and getting to spend it
I worry about: not being able to dance/having to quit
I’m good at: dance!, reading
I want to be better at: tumbling, fluency in reading outloud
If I could have a superpower: freeze time
Someday I want to: dance en pointe, become a tutor in math
I’m thankful for: my talents, getting to dance, family
I like it best when I am: on a cruise!, sleeping

Life with her is so fun and exciting. I love seeing life through the eyes of my kids. And with her, as our oldest, its always a first for both of us. She is maturing quickly, ready or not, we suddenly have a tween on our hands. She’s had some rough moments and has worked hard to balance her emotions and steady her confidence. She’s very smart and loves to read. She continues in piano, perhaps more because I insist, but hopefully seeing the long term value. Her passion is dance. She can’t help herself, she’s always moving, stretching or swaying or finding the energy in a song. She devotes a lot of hours to it but has very rarely ever complained. (It probably helps that she dances with her best friend!) She’s gotten to have a lot of “spotlight opportunities” this year, doing the dance duo and have a solo spotlight in one of the team numbers and it has been such a great experience to build her skill and confidence. She When she’s not dancing, she’s most comfortable in her pjs, ready to watch a chick flick with me or dive into a book. Her sisters can still talk her into playing dolls or barbies occasionally. But more often we play board games or watch a show for some much needed down time. Together we’re finding the balance of her growing up. I love talking to her and joking with her. I hate how less and less I can “fix” the things that upset her. She’s been eager to accept a little more independence and we’re trying hard to let her have more decision making. We’ve had lots of “maturing” conversations lately, some sooner than I expected! It’s so fun and exciting to see the person she is continually becoming!


A, 8.5 years old
Favorite color: peach
Favorite food: sick soup (Lipton noodle soup), tortellini, pasta and vegetables
Favorite treats: chocolate cake, Twix, Hersheys
Favorite movie/show: The Greatest Showman, Joseph and the Technicolor Dreamcoat
Favorite music: Goo Goo Dolls, Taylor Swift
Favorite book: Magic of the Rainbow, Island of the Blue Dolphin
Favorite activities: ice skating, rock climbing, playing with cousins
Favorite toys: Barbies, legos, my bird
Favorite animal: kittens
Favorite restaurant: Ichiban, Olive Garden
Favorite place to go: rock climbing, Kamas pool, Museum of Curiosity
Favorite game: Mario monopoly
Favorite holiday: Christmas
Favorite vacation: Legoland, Hawaii
Dream vacation: New York
What I want to be when I grow up: veterinarian, teacher
I dream about: dragons, pink fluffy unicorns dancing on rainbows
I worry about: nightmare monsters
I’m good at: rock climbing, math, jump rope, imagination
I want to be better at: ice skating
If I could have a superpower: teleportation, no more being late to school!
Someday I want to: get a scholarship and have my own house
I’m thankful for: family, kittens, barbies
I like it best when I am: playing barbies or playing on the computer

All my kids have such passion! Hers in deeply rooted in her imagination. This kid dreams and schemes and leads like no other. She’s so creative and irresistibly friendly. She leads dragon training during recess at school. She coordinates and conducts playgroup talent shows. She is so fun to be around and is good at everything she tries. She has a bossy streak and tends to overreact when things don’t go her way. And yet is so tender and compassionate. She adores babies and is so cute playing with baby Z. I love how she dreams so big. I believe she is truly gifted in so many ways. I particularly love when she plays piano. Already her long graceful fingers make it looks so beautiful and she learns so easily. She still loves art, and has been taking karate and gymnastics this year. Everything comes so easy to her that I think it’s been hard to settle on any one thing to be really focused and passionate about! Instead, she is a very gifted, well rounded, delightful person. She’s so creative and independent in a lot of ways, needing much less guidance or encouragement about anything. She’s just running full speed, doing as much as she can and taking on the whole world on at once.



E, 6.5 years old
Favorite color: blue, pink, purple, rainbow
Favorite food: ramen, ham and cheese sandwich, hard tacos, tortellini
Favorite treats: Hershey bar, M&Ms, skittles
Favorite movie/show: Moana, Cinderella (cartoon and real), Matilda
Favorite music: All Eyes on Me, Moana soundtrack, Greatest Showman soundtrack
Favorite book: adventure scrapbooks Grammy made
Favorite activities: spending time with activity, playing with friends, trampoline, dance
Favorite toys: Barbies, big dolls, My Little Ponies
Favorite animal: panda
Favorite restaurant: Ichiban, Panda Express, Taco Bell
Favorite place to go: skiing, movie theatre,
Favorite game: Pandamonium
Favorite holiday: my birthday!
Favorite vacation: Hawaii, Kanab
Dream vacation: New York, Florida
What I want to be when I grow up: dancer, panda trainer, vet, doctor
I dream about: riding a unicorn
I worry about: having nightmares
I’m good at: playing Barbies with sisters
I want to be better at: not fighting
If I could have a superpower: to not fight
Someday I want to: be nice to everyone, see a baby panda
I’m thankful for: this world
I like it best when I am: I play with friends and sisters

Oh this kid! She is precocious and beautiful and sweet and fiery in every way. She loves to be my helper and has such a tender heart. She’s so smart and I’m so impressed with how fast she’s learning to read. She has an impeccable memory, recalling things I said and forgot or the details of a certain event, oftentimes something that happened when I didn’t even think she was paying attention. I really think her fantastic memory has been a huge help in piano. She’s been able to keep up with her class, despite them all being at least a year older than her and she’s been really dedicated to getting her practice in every day. I’m so proud of her. She’s so fun to talk to and she loves to make up dance performances and sing songs for me. She teams up well with her little brother and they play great together. She wants so badly to mother him and help him. Her obsession with pandas continues to be adorable. I don’t think there has ever been another stuffed animal more adored than Penny. She’s my little negotiator, sometimes to fault, and knows how to charm her way in and out of what she wants. She can be coy, stubborn, devastated and just plain happy, all within the space of minutes. There’s a saying, “whole lot of sunshine, little bit of hurricane.” That’s her.



Z, 2 years old
Favorite color: blue, red
Favorite food: asparagus, eggs, pancakes, French fries
Favorite treats: popcorn!, chocolate, marshmallows, dumdum suckers
Favorite movie/show: Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Cars, Wreck it Ralph
Favorite music: “Happy to you”, “twinkle star”, “5 monkeys”, “itsy bitsy”, “sunshine”
Favorite book: sofia look and find, mickey look and find
Favorite activities: watching mickey, wrestling, tickling, going to Sportsmans
Favorite toys: duplos, tools, cars
Favorite animal: “elk!”, “moose!”, dog
Favorite restaurant: anywhere with French fries
Favorite place to go: Sportsmans, Papa’s house
Favorite game: “peek-koo” (hide and seek)
Favorite holiday: birthdays
Favorite vacation: Kanab hot air balloon festival
Dream vacation: Disneyland
What I want to be when I grow up: bigger
I dream about: mickey, elk, eating
I worry about: not finding binky
I’m good at: hugs, kisses, compassion, making people smile
I want to be better at: not spilling my food everywhere
If I could have a superpower: super strong
Someday I want to: go to school
I’m thankful for: family, “truck” (my blanket)
I like it best when I am: watching Mickey with truck and popcorn

Every morning he comes in with the biggest grin, clutching “truck” and binky, ready to play. He’s just so dang happy all the time. He’s so charming and sweet. I love to play with him and get very little done. He loves watching Mickey (super adventures is his favorite), playing with the little people toys, jumping on the trampoline, playing with his cars and going to the park. He’s so fun to run errands with. He makes friends with everyone in the store and from his seat in the cart, pulls me in for hugs at least once every few minutes. Once we take “sissy” (or “tweet tweet”) to afternoon kindergarten class, he takes a nap. He wants me to sit with him until he falls asleep. And just like bedtime, he likes when I pat his back and loves when I sing to him. He always asks for “twinkle”, just so he can immediately interrupt me, “no no no! sunshine!”. After naps we cuddle until we hear the girls coming home. He likes to make me hide with him beside the couch so we can jump out and say “peek-oo!” Afterschool, we chauffer the girls around to various lessons and he’s pretty patient about being stuck in the car so much. He such a good eater, he tries everything and loves veggies. He’s so sweet and compassionate. If I put one of the girls on time out, he patters over to console them. He likes to sit next to them and offer his blanket and pat them on the back. He gives the best hugs, a full, tight embrace like he can squish all his happy energy into you. He adores his daddy and races to him as soon as he gets home. I love absolutely everything about this kid and cannot get enough. He is perfect in every way. I joke that he is our dessert. Three girls in four years was wonderful but intense! And now we have our perfect dessert. I love absolutely everything about him!